So let’s throw out all those banal, pointless questions and give you some slightly more obscure ones, which will actually be far more helpful in assisting your decision. After all, this person is going to be spending a lot of time with you on, and in the run-up to, the biggest day of your life. Surely you want to know a bit more than whether they’re a Canon or a Nikon fan?
1. What would you do if you weren’t a photographer?
Your photographer’s answer to this one will give you a great insight into their personality, interests and lifestyle as well as their genuineness and passion. You don’t necessarily need to find common ground with the person who sells you your veil and tiara – but it’s crucial to get along with the person capturing your wedding memories. If you’re not comfortable with them (and even worse, if you don’t actually LIKE them!) it will show in your facial expressions and in the general atmosphere of your wedding photographs, which does not make for an amazing album.
Choose someone you like, someone you can picture yourself having a coffee or a glass of wine with and someone with whom you share certain interests or values. Photographers are human beings too, and we’re all different, so spend some time chatting to make sure you’d be happy to have them around on your wedding day.
2. What do you think of the photographer in the next street/town?
This is also a great indicator of professionalism and personality. A real professional will never run down the competition and will always try to be diplomatic. As Mother always said, “if you’ve got nothing nice to say, say nothing”, and in business that’s very important.
"No one has ever made himself great by showing how small someone else is." ~ Irvin Himmel
3. Which part of the wedding do you most enjoy?
The enthusiasm in the answer to this question will determine a lot about the photographer’s attitude and creativity. Usually the best shots are the ones that are enjoyed, both by the people being photographed and the photographer shooting them. If you’re looking for a quirky, fun look to your photographs choose a photographer who enjoys catching the lighthearted, spontaneous moments. Similarly, if natural shots of family are most important to you, choose a photographer who enjoys shooting candid, unposed people shots in between the ceremony and the wedding breakfast while people mill and chat. If you want high-fashion-style bridal portraits, choose someone who enjoys those most and is happy to spend plenty of time with you to get wow-inducing images.
4. How can you help to make me look my best in photos?
A good photographer will be able to offer advice, tips and tricks to make you look your best. Some people want to look slimmer, others may be self-conscious of their ears or teeth for example, and it’s the photographer’s job to put your mind at rest on any issues you might have. If your photographer offers an engagement or pre-wedding shoot, use the opportunity to try out their suggestions. The more at ease you are in front of the camera, the smoother the photography will run on the day and that means more time to spend enjoying yourself with your guests!
5. What contingencies do you have in place?
This is something most often overlooked, especially by couples who are basing their decision on price alone. Don’t risk your wedding photographs to save a few quid – it’s not worth the regret. Make sure the photographer you choose has ample back-up equipment and is fully insured. Also make sure they have a system in place so that if they break a leg, they have a network of potential substitutes able to cover your day to the same high standard.
If you’re getting married in winter, check on their ability to get to your venue if there’s ice and snow.
You should of course take out your own wedding insurance to cover you against any unforeseen disasters, but the more prepared you are against as many eventualities as possible, the less likely any problems are to ruin your wedding day!
If you’re currently planning your wedding, congratulations! This is a really exciting time so enjoy it, and if you’d like help, ideas or information we have endless (*almost) wedding planning resources available including supplier recommendations, etiquette information, seating plan advice... you name it! Just give us a call if you’d like to come and chat about all things Wedding – 01341 28 11 93.
~Sally Marie~
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Make sure you allow plenty of time to get everyone organised for the group shot. Ushers can be a great help in speeding things along here by letting everyone know that they are needed for a few minutes for a group photograph. A high window, steps or balcony can provide an excellent vantage point for getting everyone's face in the picture clearly.
Smaller group shots can be as informal or as formal as you like, but remember it can take longer to direct a group of people so limit the number of smaller groups to what is important to YOU the couple - it's your day and your wedding album after all - and don't allow endless combinations of guest groups to compromise images that may be more important to you, such as the shots of the two of you together.
If it helps, make a list of the essential groups and give a copy to an usher or the best man, and a copy to your photographer. Sticking to a set of important group shots will make this part of the day as smooth as possible for you and your guests.
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The morning of the big day will most likely be a buzz of activity. It's a huge part of the wedding day story and a part that you'll want to remember.
More and more brides are choosing to have this time documented by their wedding photographer as part of the wedding photography package, and you may want to consider whether this is something you would like to include in your wedding storybook or album.
Some brides like to have the whole preparations photographed, from rollers-and-dressing-gowns through the hair and make up artist's visit to the final transformation in gown and veil.
Other brides prefer a general "before the wedding" feel, with shots of the dress waiting to be put on, details of shoes and flowers, perfume and champagne, which all add a lovely feel and a burst of colour to the eventual album design.
This elegant image was taken as the bride left the hotel lift on her way out to the lobby:
Sally Marie offers bridal preparations as part of the wedding photography service. With a female photographer who specialises in making women look their best on film, it's a relaxed, friendly approach and the images taken at this part of the day are natural, fun and flattering.
